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Why You Have Approach Anxiety AND How To Destroy It!
Why You Have Approach Anxiety AND How To Destroy It!
Fear of approaching women is one the most crippling fears a man can experience in life. It's that feeling that every time you want to approach a woman your body just locks up. In the most extreme case, missing an opportunity to approach just ONE woman could result in anywhere from one night to years of happiness. For me personally, the worst thing about this was that I had NO IDEA WHAT I MIGHT BE MISSING OUT ON.
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So now on to my main point... why would a guy avoid approaching an attractive woman? Seems like a crazy illogical idea, right?
That's because IT IS.
What I'm about to tell you is something that took me YEARS to figure out. It's also something that many people don't know (or don't recognize).
If you really think about it emotions are just chemicals. It's not the situation that causes you to FEEL a certain way.
Your emotions are not caused an attractive woman. They are not your job interview. They are not your final exam you need to pass. They are just chemicals in your brain and if your brain doesn't produce a chemical response you don't feel fear, anger, worry or anything else - it's that simple.
This is great news for us because what it comes down to simply is this:
Get rid of the reaction in your body and you feel will feel fearless every single time you approach a woman. I know this personally because I live this way myself and have helped thousands of other guys just like you get similar results. How you can DESTROY your fears.
Let me ask you a question...
When you were born do you think you'd be afraid to approach a woman? I'll bet everything I own you said no and if you said yes I want to hear your story because it'd be a first.
With that in mind let me ask you another question...
Would you be afraid to touch fire?
Sounds like a pretty strange question, right? Well it is.
It is also the key to understanding why you're fear with women or anything else exists.
Let me explain...
If you're like, you probably learned fire was hot after touching it and created the belief in your mind that touching fire is potentially harmful to you.
But if I lit a fire for you right now and asked you to touch it what would happen. You might consciously try to move your hand toward it but your unconscious mind would probably FIGHT you and keep your hand away because it knows what will happen if you touch the fire. Your brain has an underlying belief set by past experiences that touching the fire is dangerous to your well-being so your mind makes you feel SCARED about touching the fire.
Of course in the case of touching fire, that belief is true - you touch fire it will burn you that's not an illogical fear. However, you may have an underlying belief about approaching women that is not true which will cause your mind to try to stop you from approaching them. Mine was, at the simplest level, "all beautiful women are stuck up and not worth my time" but yours will surely be different and unique to your life and your experiences. Either way, this belief that approaching a woman was going to hurt me caused my mind to attempt to protect me each time I wanted to approach an attractive woman. Unlike my belief about fire however, this belief about women WAS illogical. I only believed that women were mean and stuck up because I accepted that belief.
But no matter how much I tried to approach a woman my mind saw approaching a woman as being similar to touching fire - something dangerous it must keep me away from. This is great news for us because it means that once you discover these beliefs and accept them as illogical you can remove this "protection" from your belief system and get rid of your "approach anxiety"
Let's take an example that's more relevant to attracting women where your fear comes in to play...
Have you ever wondered why is it that you can approach or talk to someone you consider a "5" with NO fear but suddenly when that woman that you consider a "10" comes along you feel a HUGE fear?
Hmm...must be a malfunction in your "hardwired" fear. Your inner caveman is just on vacation, right?
...or are you not approaching women because YOU are afraid of the outcome?
With a "5" there's a good chance you don't care whether she finds you attractive or not... YOU DON'T WANT OR NEED ANYTHING FROM HER - again it all comes back to the thoughts and feelings in YOUR mind.
But with the "10" you want something from her and when you don't get what you want it becomes a failure in your mind... your ego would take a blow if you went after something you wanted and didn't get it.
The more importance you place on the outcome (usually gauged by how "hot" a woman is) the more nervousness and fear you're going to feel. It also works the opposite. The less attractive a woman is the less fear you'll have of approaching or being rejected because you don't care about the outcome and therefore the situation has no success or failure in your mind.
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What this means is if you don't care about the outcome you will have NO fear... PERIOD.
Until you fully rid yourself of these emotional responses, you're going still going to always carry around your old "wussy" behaviors. Maybe you've even found a few "tips" and "tactics" to help you cope with this feeling or make it more bearable. I'm sure you've also realized your emotions are something you can't think your way out of feeling emotions.
Oddly enough, to cope or deal with "approach anxiety" many "experts" or "gurus" teach us to look everywhere EXCEPT at the emotions themselves.
At a core level, everything (this computer screen, a woman, a car, water, fire, ect) is made of subatomic particles called atoms. Everything around us is made of vibrating energy. But here's the important part, outside of our body and mind, everything is neutral. Something only becomes good or bad when we perceive it that way.
Let me explain...
What that means is that everything is equal. In your car, for example, leather seats are no better or worse than vinyl seats in your car. Outside of your mind both are equal. It is when you decide that leather is better than vinyl in your mind that it becomes "better" and you begin to decide whether you're worthy of such a "good" thing. What is "good or "bad" is entirely based on how feel about things and which things feel better than others. Outside of your head everything is neutral.
That is also (and this is important!) when you categorize in your mind whether you think you deserve a "good" thing... when you decide it is good or bad.
Unfortunately your body and mind also develop beliefs from a young age that you ACCEPT as true whether or not they are actually valid. In reality, we are the result of all different things like childhood issues, strong emotional experiences or certain events that have conditioned us to "stay away" from things to protect ourselves.
Every emotion we have acts for a reason. When we understand these emotions and can understand why they are there (why this emotion makes you afraid) and you accept this belief as illogical, the emotion can no longer make you feel a certain way in a situation because you know the reason why that emotion is there and because of this it will no longer have power over you and will no longer effect you.
Every emotion we feel has a positive intention behind it even if we are COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to it. Like the fire example it is trying to override our conscious mind to protect us. But sometimes the only way your emotions know how to protect you is by keeping you from something you DO want.
One example would be wanting to stand up to your boss more than anything but not doing it out of fear of angering him or losing your job. The fearful emotion (the painful feeling in your stomach) believes it is protecting you by making you too afraid to stand up to your boss. Your emotions believe they are protecting you by keeping you from doing what you want to.
Dealing with emotional issues is the most important part of creating lasting change but it is also the factor that is most overlooked. If you have a "do it next time" or attitude and you have to force yourself to "do it" next time "it" comes or if you just seem to get scared of failure and make stupid mistakes as that same old feeling hits you in the pit of your stomach every time you're about to succeed, you have an emotional issue.
After struggling with this stuff myself for so many years, I made a promise that I was always going to make my first priority helping others so that they do not have to go through the same years of hard work that I did. I want to help you get REAL results.
If you've seen little tricks or gimmicks for "dealing" with approach anxiety and probably realized none of them work, I want to help you CURE your fears of approaching women and ELIMINATE these fears once and for all which is why, in the spirit of abundance and giving, I want you to have my Anxiety Annihilator Mp3 (which is a $49.90 value) completely free and help you discover just how easy it is to create powerful changes in YOUR life quickly and easily.
If you're truly committed to changing your life and getting the best for yourself than I want you to go to my website and get your FREE DOWNLOAD and destroy your Approach Anxiety permanantly.
Change your life and the rest is history.
Your friend,
Chris
Ryan J. Smith
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